Parable of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10: 30-37)
30 Jesus replied with a story: “A Jewish man was travelling from Jerusalem down to Jericho, and he was attacked by bandits. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him up, and left him half dead beside the road.
31 “By chance a priest came along. But when he saw the man lying there, he crossed to the other side of the road and passed him by. 32 A Temple assistant walked over and looked at him lying there, but he also passed by on the other side.33 “Then a despised Samaritan came along, and when he saw the man, he felt compassion for him. 34 Going over to him, the Samaritan soothed his wounds with olive oil and wine and bandaged them. Then he put the man on his own donkey and took him to an inn, where he took care of him. 35 The next day he handed the innkeeper two silver coins, telling him, ‘Take care of this man. If his bill runs higher than this, I’ll pay you the next time I’m here.’
36 “Now which of these three would you say was a neighbour to the man who was attacked by bandits?” Jesus asked.
37 The man replied, “The one who showed him mercy.”
Then Jesus said, “Yes, now go and do the same.”
Two different incidents happened to me this week, which reminded me of this parable Jesus told.
On Monday, while driving home from work, I saw a man lying on the side of the road. It looked like he fell as he was walking on crutches. He was stuck in a uncomfortable position, (which he fell into) and looked like he had difficulty getting up. His eyes were big and frightened. There was two joggers that just continued running past him, not even stopping.
I wondered if I should stop and help, as I was going the opposite direction that he was going, and I was almost home. I drove on a bit and decided to turn my car around and help him. As I approached the man with my car, two other motorists had already stopped to assist the man. Never the less, I also parked my car on the side of the road and got out. The one motorist was already busy talking to the man, but he was unresponsive, his eyes was still wide and scared. The two ladies then helped the man up and seated him in one of the cars.
At first we thought that the man might be drunk as he was unable to speak. He had a big luggage bag with him (it was like he was travelling somewhere) and a small cooler bag. While sitting in the car, he pointed to his cooler bag, as if to say to us "give that to me" The one lady then said to the other, "don't let him drink more" and as she opened and examined the contents of the bag, saw that there was only bottles of coke and energy drinks in the bag. She held out one of the drinks, but it was clear this was not what he wanted. She then gave him the bag and he pulled something out from the bottom of the bag. What he pulled out stunned all three of us and, well for me, made me feel ashamed that we thought he was a drunkard and only wanted another drink. He pulled out a syringe, with , what seems to be medicine in it, and continued to inject himself in the stomach. Clearly this man was sick and needed his medicine. We then started to question the man, but he was unable to speak. He had a big writing pad, so we gave this to him as well as a pencil. The first thing he wrote? "thank you mommy" That really touched my heart, this man was very thankful for the help that we have offered him. We asked him where he was going, and he wrote that he was on his way to the bus station, which is about 10 kms from where he was. The one motorist then said that she will take the man to the bus station, it was clear that he was unable to walk that distance. We then loaded his suitcase into the car (which was REALLY heavy) and motorist then drove off.
I guess I will never know his whole story, where he was coming from, how far he had already walked etc. While assisting the man, I turned to one of the ladies and said, "people are just driving past this man, and people are just jogging / walking past and no one is helping him" She then answered and said, Well, that's how it is nowadays, which is really sad. Our society has become a place where everyone is for themselves, no one cares for each other anymore. With that however, I think that people are too scared to stop and to help, you never know if it might be a trap, and you might get mugged / injured yourself. I was careful in the sense, that that was already two other cars that stopped, and as it was afternoon traffic, there was a lot of cars that was passing us .
The second incident happened on Friday. I had just dropped off my husband at the airport and I was driving home. I came to a traffic light, and stayed in the one lane to drive straight onwards. I then thought to myself, that I am rather going to take a different route, and turned left. As I was driving towards a bridge, I saw a man and a woman, that seemed at first, to be in a argument. I thought this might be a couple arguing about something, but quickly realised this was not the case, when the man suddenly pushed the woman against the wall of the bridge. Her eyes, like the man with the crutches, was wide and scared. I then saw the man pulling her handbag, trying to take it away from her. I then realised that this man was mugging this woman in broad daylight. (it was about 14H00 in the afternoon)
When seeing this, I slowed my car down and started to push my car horn, to distract the two people. They then both looked up and the woman showed me to stop. Another motorist also slowed down and stopped on the side of the road. I saw the man then running away, and the woman started to run after my car and the other motorist, gesturing that we should please stop. I stopped my car, got out and approached the woman. Clearly she was in shock. I asked her what happened and she said that the man tried to mug her. I told her that it was now ok and that she was safe. I then offered her a ride home, and she accepted. Before we drove off, she asked me if we could turn around and get her shoes, which she lost in the struggle. We got her shoes and I then took her home. Luckily she did not live far from where this happened. I asked her what happened and if the man had a gun or a knife. She then told me the man had a gun and a knife and was threatening her. I could see on her face that she was really scared and relived that the ordeal was over. She mentioned that this was the second time that this had happened to her. She lifted the sleeve of her jacket, which showed scars where another man probably stabbed her as well. Luckily, with this incident, the man was unable to get any of her possessions.
I dropped her off at home and watched her go into the gated complex safely. Only after I got home, I thought about the situation in more detail. I realise now that this might have easily been a setup, where the two of them knew each other, and used the opportunity to mug me, or the man could have turned around and fire shots at us. I think that I really saw the panic in her eyes, this made me stop the car, also, if the other motorist did not stop, I doubt that I would have. Yes, it is unsafe to stop to assist someone, especially in South Africa, I think it is really sad that we have come to this as a country, that you actually cannot trust anyone. We must then ask God to give us discernment, to be able to differentiate between different situations. Its not always a good idea to stop and go head first into a situation.
I hope that these two incidents are of meaning to you as it was to me. I thank God for protecting me in both situations - I think as Christians, helping other people should come naturally to us, as we should love one another just like He loved us - but we must always be careful not to boast about our good deeds, the glory should always go to God. In everything we do, we should glorify Him.






